Suffering, what's the plan Lord? (Isaiah 25. 6-9, John 11.32-44)
Working at St Peter Mancroft can
often be a challenge, in a good way. Our Parish is tiny, there are fewer than
four hundred people living in it, so our parishoners are the transient people
that pass through the bustling centre of Norwich.
It’s almost like an island,
standing still while the ocean of people and things move around it, but there
it sits, open, inviting. One of the things with being an island though, is that
boats will come, often these boats are filled with well to do tourists, camera
snapping people, having a look round.
There are spiritual pilgrims, who
come in to pray, to sit and to think.
Then there are other people with
very complex needs, some who are extremely troubled or mentally ill, others who
are going through a really tough time in their lives, and they cling to our
Island for refuge from a storm.
Here are two stories, that happened
this week.
Story One.
Monday Evening, after the church
was shut, choir rehearsals going on, twilight. A lady appears in the church
yard, we’ll call her Jane.
Jane is drunk. In floods of tears,
saying that she will only talk to a priest, so out muggins here goes. She is in
deep distress.
“Hello” I said, “How can I help
you?”
It was cold. She wanted to come
into the church, initially I said no, but I realised just how cold it was, and
I was worried that she would catch a cold, and that I would too.
I thought she was just a bit drunk,
it turned out that there were much more complex needs going on.
I got her a glass of water, and for
the next thirty minutes, I sat and listened, trying to understand what the
problem was. She wouldn’t tell me, “You’re a man of God, I’m a lost sheep. I
need God. I need your help.” She kept saying. “You’re not a good priest if you
don’t know what’s wrong with me.”
Despite trying to explain that I’m
not clairvoyant, she still wouldn’t let me in.
One minute she said she was
suicidal, the next she wasn’t. One minute she was homeless, the next she was
living with her mum.
Her wild eyed erratic face bored
into me, and I realised, there was nothing I could do for her.
I was helpless. Eventually even
though we tried all we could to help her, she left, and I felt utterly useless.
Story Two.
Church, afternoon, sunny and busy.
A lady is in the church crying. She is in deep distress.
I offered her a glass of water, she
said yes please. I went to get it, and came back. My name is Graham, what’s
your name. We’ll call her Alice.
We had a twenty minute
conversation, she had cancer last year, she’d gone of the rails, so she said.
She had destroyed her relationship with her partner that she loved, and he was
leaving her.
Wow.
The tears flooded down her face, as
she cried. “I’m going to be alone forever.” She cried. I listened to her,
offered what consolation I could, repeated some of the things that had been
said to me when I broke up with my partner.
I listened.
Her tears fell, and I realised,
there was nothing I could do for her.
I was helpless, I couldn’t take the
pain away.
What can we do in the face of such
suffering? The only thing I could do for both of these women, was pray for
them, hope for them, listen to them. Have a bit of compassion.
When people are suffering and in
pain, be it physical or mental, it’s tough, it feels wrong and unnatural. It’s
easy to lose hope sometimes.
But our bible readings today talk
all about what a greater hope we have. That Jesus stared into the face of such
hopelessness.
In our readings we see the
character of God, we see what God does in the face of suffering, and we can see
the hope that we have as Christians.
I was helpless in the face of their
suffering, but that doesn’t mean we are hopeless.
In the face of suffering,
reconciliation. In the face of despair hope and victory.
Our reading from Isaiah today is
one of my favourite readings from the Bible. It’s all about God’s victory. It’s
a vision of what life with God will be like, and the kind of character God has.
The imagery in it is brilliant, and
it uses everyday examples to describe something about God, and His relationship
with us. For a start there’s the vivid description of the heavenly banquet, you
can almost taste it. Though I doubt many of us would automatically think of
foods rich in marrow. Well matured wines however, well I have been known to
enjoy a glass of chateuneuf du pape every now and then.
God will feed us, and God nourishes
us in the face of our pain. This banquet is a celebration of God’s victory.
It’s aspirational. In it’s context, most people would’ve been subsistence
farmers, growing barely enough food to feed themselves and their families, and
pay their bills.
So God will give us an abundance.
The sheet and shroud are interesting
too, what it’s talking about are mourning garments that people would’ve worn. There’s
no need for them in God’s kingdom, because there is no death, only a new joy.
There will be no mourning in the joy to come.
So God has victory over death.
“God will wipe away tears from all
faces.” It’s funny that this part of Isaiah doesn’t say only the faithful, or a
particular type of person, or people who profess a particular belief. It says
everyone. Everybody has the potential to be reconciled to God.
God sees our suffering, He sees our
pain, and will wipe away our tears, he takes away our disgrace and forgives us,
picks us up and gives us hope. We wait eagerly for him to come.
In the face of suffering, God’s
reconciliation is there.
In the words of the primary school
hymn, ‘Brother, Sister, let me serve you,’ “ I will weep when you are
weeping;
when you laugh I'll laugh with you; I will share your joy and sorrow, till we've seen this journey through.”
when you laugh I'll laugh with you; I will share your joy and sorrow, till we've seen this journey through.”
It seems almost cliché, It’s just
so with God, we believe in a God that is so close to us, that God became one of
us in Jesus Christ. God climbs on a boat, and meets us at the island where we
are.
The phrase ‘greatly disturbed and
deeply moved’ in our gospel reading actually is closer in the original Greek to
meaning, angry. Jesus isn’t angry at the people, or their lack of faith, but is
angry at the injustice of death, angry at the power of death.
Jesus shows us the very nature of
God, angry at the power of death, and weeping because his friend has died. In
the face of the despair that surrounds him he is angry about it, and then is
moved to tears by it.
What an amazing God.
Just like in our Old Testament
reading, God reaches out to make it better, God reaches to our faces, through
the face of Lazarus, and wipes away our tears. God triumphs over death, over
it’s power. Where God is concerned it has no sovereignty. It is
vanquished.
God’s love and compassion is so
great, for Lazarus and for each one of us, that God reaches into the tomb of
our current lives and says ‘no’ this isn’t what I have planned for you forever.
In the face of the despair around
Lazarus, Jesus reaches and in the face of it, love and victory emerges.
We are in communion with that
moment, as we are in communion with all the saints that have gone before us.
We might feel hopeless and
helpless, unable to do anything in the face of all the pain and suffering that
pervades our world. But the hope is that Jesus knows it, Jesus reaches into it,
and has done since before time began, and God will reconcile it all and make it
better in the end.
That doesn’t make the pain go away,
but it helps to know that God has it, God knows it. I don’t know what will
happen to Alice and Jane, but I do know that God holds them, and doesn’t let
go.
For now all we can do is listen and
pray, hope and watch, and be inspired by the saints that have gone before us,
and live in God’s greater presence now, as we will too.
In the face of suffering,
reconciliation. In the face of despair, love and victory.
God is with us in our pain, but it
won’t be like this forever. We must hope and pray that with all the saints God
will fulfil His promises to us.
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